So, being my first cruise, I thought I would put together a few things that I noticed or felt.
This may seem obvious, but it was something I seldom did and in hindsight, maybe I could have been better at it. Look at the daily activity sheets as there may be something that you hadn’t realized was happening that you can go to. One day, Judy and I had high tea.

One day we joined into the speed puzzle contest. We didn’t win, but we finished the 300 piece puzzle in less than 40 minutes.

Be ready to go early and wait to get into one of the venues or if there is a section of the ship that you like best, get to that spot early and stake it out – it’s good to remind yourself that the crew will wait on you – if needed – anywhere you are on the ship.
Watch what others do and eat. Combining bits from different places in the galley can really set a meal apart. Try all of the restaurants as some can surprise you in either direction. Keep an eye on the galley specials as those can be quite good too. The small bars also offer small bites that can be quite good. The restaurants can often take you as a walk up even if they show no reservations available.
If you want an ice cream cone from the ice cream bar and not just a cup of ice cream, still get the scoops in the cup and top it with the cone. The ship sometimes rolls more than you think and I saw more than one scoop fall off of a cone when people had the scoops on the cone the normal way.
Check out the bands and singers early on in the cruise as some are really worth hearing more than once. You needn’t always be in the immediate vicinity of any of the performers as some are loud and play not in one of the cruise venues, but in an open space where you can enjoy them from farther away
Let the ship do your laundry as the sinks aren’t big enough to do any piece of clothing beyond undergarments. We used the sailor loot that was part of our package so that we didn’t feel the hit of paying $55.00 for a big bag of clothes to be washed and folded.
Take some small magnetic hooks as they come in handy to use on walls and doors as extra space to hang something. The walls on ships are all steel (or some magnetic surface).
Get a cabin with a balcony. While we didn’t use ours a ton on cold or windy days, it is still nice to look out and get your bearings or just let sunshine into your room. If you don’t need to sleep together, consider having them convert the beds to singles as it opens up the room for more space.

The Diva activities and shows are some of the best options for good entertainment. We had two on our ship. We did bingo with the diva one day (using up some of that sailor loot to buy bingo cards)

Take cards and maybe your favorite game if it is a good small travel size. We played cards often on sail days and the ship didn’t have cards. I had a deck with me and then everyone bought decks along the way.
Your best chances for some quiet alone time either inside or out is going to be in the morning before activities begin to ramp up. Music is piped into every common space on the ship and increases in volume as the day progresses. People will spread out more in warmer and southern climates, but the pool areas can be some of the loudest.
Take some books to read and then leave them on the reading exchange table when you have finished. This allows the next person to pick it up for a read, and you then have the space that you packed your books in for souvenirs to take home. You might get lucky and find a fun book to read from the exchange table too.

All in all, I can see why people like to cruise: your not schlepping your luggage around every day, you get to see some cool ports and towns. I personally would like more time to organically explore, but coming off of a cruise ship you almost always need to book an excursion so that you know you can at least see the one or two things from your list and know you can make it back onto the ship before it sails. I wouldn’t recommend a long cruise as your first time like I did as it did get to feel long, but I also wouldn’t have wanted to miss any of our stops.
You will meet people on the cruise, but if you can travel with friends, it elevates the experience to a higher level.

I was very fortunate to have such good pals on board to laugh with at all times. I will say that I got more dirty looks for my laugh than maybe ever before and the ship comedian thought I was heckling him when Shelda made me bust into a loud guffaw at a time when he wasn’t throwing out a punch line. Maybe a ship is a little too confined for my laugh. Oh well. We also got comments on how fun our group seemed to be and one bartender said that she texted her pals and said that she was going to grow up and be just like the older ladies currently at her bar. It would have been a better story if she hadn’t called us old.😜
I’m sure there will be more thoughts on cruising coming to me, but that is all I have for now.




















































































































































